I shared this on my other blog but since I am here now blogging I wanted to bring the information here to share with the ladies!
This is for the ladies!! ➦➦ Ladies, I am telling you this because I have been there! Please stop telling these guys your feelings or confessing your feelings for them until they tell you first! You know why? Because he isn't going to want to be on his best behavior with you or act right because he knows you want him more than he wants you!! IF YOU KEEP PUSHING IT ON HIM HE WILL DISTANCE HIMSELF BECAUSE HE THINKS YOU ARE DESPERATE AND CRAZY!! My aunt's friend told me years ago that she NEVER tells a man how much she is so crazy about him and she has NEVER told her husband all of her feelings because she knew that it wouldn't keep him on his toes(THE ARE STILL MARRIED WITH 3 ADULT CHILDREN MARRIED FOR OVER 20 YEARS). Once he thinks he looks better than you or that you like him more then he likes you he will NEVER look at you the same and won't chase you as he use too he will eventually start to chase other women in the hopes of getting what he really wants which is pretty much what he thinks he can't have and that will give him a challenge. If a man or person isn't doing you right or treating you like you should be treated then it's time to love yourself a little more and keep your options open and stay busy until that person sees that you have changed and will try to chase you again to get back with you. You might even ask yourself Ewww! How in the heck can he be with her? She is so ugly and she DOES NOT look better than me. Well, the truth is if you see a man with a woman that looks not as good as him she is probably dealing with a lot of his cheating and spending money on him to stay with her. That woman most likely will never ever realize that if she wants a better man than she herself needs to level up to play the game! It can be just as easy as wearing new make up the right way, getting a new hairstyle or modern wig and even losing weight that will help the most! I use to hear things like "oh if he really loves me he won't care about the outside he will care about me and love me for me"! Lolol well, there is a little truth with that in fairy tale land but not in the REAL world! In the real world, you have to be that match! If you want a certain type of man find out what he likes or check out the women he likes to date or is seen with and you need to try to look that part or come close to it to get his attention! Not changing yourself to get the man of your dreams and just sitting around waiting for God to bring you a good man is very LAZY and a sad excuse! Ladies we need to be doing things every day to make sure we are presenting our very best that we can every day vibrate on a higher level and shine as we strive to become our best version!! That way you won't
be looking for God to send you a husband you will be proactive, living life and loving you and not all depressed and sad because you know it's going to take work to become your best version to have the life that you desire and manifest.
